From time to time, it's not the way you say itit's what you say. There are some things that you should not say to your girlfriend. Relationships should be full of communicating, loving and enjoyable. However, there are a number of things that might be mean and cause unnecessary tension. So to avoid that, we have compiled a list of things That You Ought to never say to your girlfriend:
"You are too emotional"
You just stomped all over her feelings.
It could be several reasons why she's acting out the way she is. You can use tactful ways of ascertaining the reason. This shouldn't be stated in an argument/disagreement. Anything along the lines of"You are overreacting" or suggesting it is her time of the month at an argument is likely to make things worse. Picture your favorite soccer team only lost the championships and also you get emotional, how would you want your girl to console you?
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Especially if you're seldom informed your girlfriend that she's beautiful and you say this frequently of other females. It's even worse if you say this while your eyes are locked on that female. In some cases, it may be said but it is going to impact your partner negatively. Your spouse will feel at ill ease and question your own appreciation of your own worth. She may not feel so special for you. Tables turned, how do you feel?
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Should you keep bringing up things on your ex-girlfriend, it could indicate that you haven't moved on. Dating writer and speaker Jenna McCarthy says it will feel insulting if you speak about your ex-girlfriend particularly if you're comparing/praising your previous girlfriend. Are you currently in a relationship with the current woman in your own life or the ghost of your ex?
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Anything which refers to her body adversely
You may think that it's constructive criticism but it might come off to a partner that you truly don't enjoy her entire body. This may fester within her head and be especially toxic to the connection. She may not feel as hot and begin to feel self-conscious in bed. Research has indicated that majority of women dislike their own bodies. You are just adding fuel to fire when you talk about her body at a not so nice way. Find ways that reveal care/concern to your partner. Should you realize she is obese, don't say"You are fat", try rather"let's change our diet or go to the gym together". Your words should show actual care and not just criticize.
"Ok", "Hmm", "Fine" etc..
She's been speaking for several moments and anticipates your full-fledged opinion or you are having a debate and she moans for your response, you uttering a monosyllable could mean to herA. You are not B or listening. You do not care. This may worsen the circumstance.
"You Are a insult*"
This is a no-no. This will tick off her even after the argument has ended. When you are having a disagreement, don't aim to wound. Don't prey on your spouse's insecurities. 1 research categorizes insulting your partner in a debate as a destructive approach. Would you want to destroy this connection?
Any announcement that reveals imprudence for the people she loves most is something which shouldn't be mentioned. Many females are super near their families.
"You're an *embarrassing statement*"
You're up and about with your friends and suddenly you state something that humiliates her although it appears innocuous to you. You'll probably never knew it hurt her till you have an argument. Be mindful of signs that she's not pleased with what you state. Be careful what you say before your friends. It may be a private matter that she doesn't want you to talk about. Perhaps, you may even mention it ahead for her acceptance.
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"That gown simply doesn't flatter you"
Another naive statement that bites. Scenario: It's date night and she spent the entire day getting prepared for this particular evening. She expects compliments, not the reverse.
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"You have too much make-up on"
She made herself up for you. This is a land that many guys don't understand. Should you truly have an issue with her make-up, say it in a way that speaks to her being amazing obviously.
"Are you finished now?"
You're having a dispute and it might seem she is speaking for minutes on end. She is talking because she has something to say that is important for her. Do not cut her short. Find ways to interject that promote a wholesome conversation.
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Saying nothing at all
She just poured out her heart to you and all you give her is dead air. While it may be that you just don't know what to say, it may come off to her that you don't care enough to discuss your thoughts.
Nobody is perfect and we all say things that hurt without meaning to hurt the person. But if we strive to be aware of our partner's responses, then we'll know what not to state in a given situation. If your relationship is good then being aware of this will help it become better. In the end of it all, say and do things which will show your spouse that you appreciate, care, respect and adore her. Don't be afraid to apologize and you can work together on communication so you can both know what to say and not to convey to each other.